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A standard "snubbing" circuit across a power switch should have both a cap and some low resistance.
For club install lighting shows we would use a 10 ohm, 1 watt and .1uf 1000V ceramic disc cap wired in series across the switch ( or relay contacts if switching line voltage ).
It's important to use a high voltage cap ( 400V or better ) and any resistor between 2 and 10 ohms is fine - the larger resistor size is handy for direct wiring onto outlets, etc.
HOWEVER some loads react differently so some experimentation might be needed. This will also greatly extend the life of the switch but it might also allow enough voltage to bleed thru and light the neon bulb if you use a cap that is too large.
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