I killed it. i found the issue. it was a phasing issue. everything was messed up. i decided to use Ian's indications and look at the schematics not the wiring. Long story short the sound is now clearer and crisper is like i purchased another pair of speaker. It sounds as it should.

I am sooooo happy! Thank you Ian, thank you Ivica, thank you Bo for your phasing suggestions.

i will make new measurements to see if there is a difference now.

Happy Easter everybody.