1. Orange County Speakers sells the diaphragms for $600 EACH - you need two.
2. Beryllium diaphragms are not available for either of your drivers - only 4" compression drivers. - you've got a 1 3/4" diaphragm'd LE175 with a 1" exit and a ring radiator (075)
3. Yes, they sound different and if you're trying to stay with the stock JBL sound, stay with the stock diaphragms.