I am very confused about what you're doing.. Why do you want to overlay all three channels and do the corrections? You have to do one speaker at a time and make it match your desired target curve.
In REW5 you should be able to see the predicted response when making your changes. Its under the EQ section.
This is a screenshot of when I set up one of my speakers:
http://dl.dropbox.com/u/10759510/For.../left%20eq.jpg
The dotted line is the predicted response after filters are applied. The dotted line is altered whenever you change a filter.
What are your goals with all the tweakings? Dont you want to achieve the response you want, and then just "relax" and enjoy the movies?