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Rolf
11-14-2009, 07:30 AM
Hello friends.

I am very sorry to inform you that my beloved wife died last night, 57 and 1/2 years only.

I feel that I must inform you about this, and that is the reason I don't have been very active lately, and probably will not be very active in the near future.

Rolf (Crying)

4313B
11-14-2009, 08:00 AM
I am really sorry to hear that Rolf.

Earl K
11-14-2009, 08:08 AM
You have my condolences Rolf .

Earl K

opimax
11-14-2009, 08:18 AM
That is very disheartening, Very sorry to hear....

Mark

Doc Mark
11-14-2009, 08:18 AM
My Dear Friend, Rolf,

I am so very sorry to hear about your sweet Wife's passing! But, I thank you, from the bottom of my heart, for your phone call about it. It's at times like these when friends band together to help one another, in many ways. Though I know the miles between us are huge, please know that you, Rolf, are in my thoughts, and in my prayers, and will be for a long time to come!! As I told you on the phone, you don't "get over" things like this; you just "get used" to dealing with them. She will always be with you in spirit, and as far as I'm concerned, you WILL see her again, when your time has come!! My only advice to you is to keep the faith, and do what you believe she would want you to do, which is to stay healthy, happy, and productive. I'm sure she would have wanted that for you, as you would want that for her.

Thank you, again, Rolf, for your call, and for your note here at LH. Though many of us will never meet in person, we have been drawn together in a common love of things JBL, and I truly believe that this JBL bridge binds us together for other things, as well. Take care, my Friend, and know that you have many people thinking of you, and praying for you, all over the world. May God bless her soul, and you, too, Rolf, with peace, comfort, and strength.

Sincerely, your Friend,
Mark

Titanium Dome
11-14-2009, 08:40 AM
Rolf

Please accept my condolences and deep regret at your sad news, my friend.

Peace.

Doug

Hoerninger
11-14-2009, 09:00 AM
Rolf,

you loved your wife dearly.
Think of the good times, which made you strong.
____________
Peter

hjames
11-14-2009, 10:30 AM
I'm sorry to hear that ..
My heart and condolences go out to you ...

macaroonie
11-14-2009, 10:55 AM
So sorry to hear your sad news Rolf. Our thoughts are with you.

Mac

MikeBrewster77
11-14-2009, 10:56 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss, Rolf. Take care of yourself through this difficult time.

Rolf
11-14-2009, 11:08 AM
Hi friends, and thank you all for the kind words. Here is a picture of my late wife, and me.

richluvsound
11-14-2009, 11:09 AM
Dear Rolf ,


I'm very sorry to hear of your sad loss.

Having just lost a close family member to cancer last monday, I feel for you deeply . What has helped myself and my family to come to terms with the grief has been the beautiful memories she has left us with . I wish you well and that you find comfort wherever you find strength !

Richard

Fred Sanford
11-14-2009, 11:15 AM
I'm very sorry for your loss, Rolf. Take care of yourself through this difficult time.

I can't do any better than that- surround yourself with people that love you, and take all the time you need before you come back to us here.

je

Doc Mark
11-14-2009, 11:23 AM
Hello, Rolf,

Thank you, so very much, for posting that wonderful photo of you and your lovely wife. I had seen her before, from a picture you sent to me last year. But, I am reminded of how lovely she was, and can easily see the love between the two of you, in that photograph!! I will look forward to talking to you again, soon, Rolf. Take care, my Friend, and know that you are not alone. May God bless you, always!

Every Good Wish,
Mark

Robh3606
11-14-2009, 01:12 PM
Hello Rolf

I am so sorry to hear about this. My condolences to you and your family

Rob:(

demon
11-14-2009, 01:21 PM
thank you for sharing your feelings -my sincere condolences to you and your family.
a loss like this is hard to comprehend.

mikey

grumpy
11-14-2009, 01:58 PM
Sorry to hear of this Rolf.
Condolences, best regards and wishes.

-dave/grumpy

1audiohack
11-14-2009, 02:23 PM
My heart breaks for you friend.

I am not blessed with eloquence, I simply hope your faith, friends, loved ones and good memories will shoulder you through until such time as you hold her in your arms again, as I know you will be able.

You're in my prayers good brother, tears all around,
Barry.

Rolf
11-14-2009, 02:23 PM
To all of you, thank you for replies, I rally appreciate it.

SMKSoundPro
11-14-2009, 02:46 PM
Lisa and I send our very best to you at this sad time. Our thought and prayers are with you as we are so sorry for your incredible loss.

Scotty.

Mr. Widget
11-14-2009, 04:51 PM
Hi Rolf,

I just logged on and saw your post.

I am truly sorry to hear about your terrible loss. I hope you have friends and family near you to help you through what I am sure is a very painful time.


Widget

mech986
11-14-2009, 06:53 PM
Hello Rolf,

Very, very sorry to hear of your loss. She truly was too young to leave so soon. My family and I will keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. You have an extended family here too so come back when you are ready.

Bart

Audiobeer
11-14-2009, 08:18 PM
Any words I say cannot diminish your pain right now and I won't even try. I can only imagine the great sorrow of your loss. You will find that in many ways She will still be with you every day.

jandregg
11-14-2009, 11:39 PM
My heart goes out to you. I am so sorry for your loss.

John

JBL 4645
11-15-2009, 04:11 AM
Oh, mate Rolf, man I’m so shocked and I’m so very sorry.:(

I’m feeling your pain I’m with slumber looking face and I’m deeply sorry Rolf .

I recall in pm that you mentioned this and I wouldn’t have thought it would be this early. I thought the two of you had so many more loving years together, I’m deeply sorry for your loss Rolf.

I feel guttered to read such a downer and I’m deeply sorry for the loss. Life at times is so crawl to take away dearly loved ones.

Ashley:(

yggdrasil
11-15-2009, 06:08 AM
Det var trist å høre Rolf, så altfor tidlig. Kondolerer så meget.

Johnny

clmrt
11-15-2009, 07:43 AM
I just read your post. She was a very beautiful woman, Rolf. I am so sorry for your loss.

Best -

baldrick
11-15-2009, 03:09 PM
Kondolerer Rolf, fryktelig trist å lese dette.

lansingfan
11-15-2009, 05:30 PM
my thoughts are of you and your loss. Truly sad news.
jblraiser

louped garouv
11-15-2009, 10:52 PM
Rolf,
I am so very sorry to hear of your loss...

much like everyone has posted already,
i can't even imagine the feeling....

but take solace in your memories...
and remember to take care of yourself.
and be with your close friends and family.

condolences,
david

JBL 4645
11-16-2009, 09:09 AM
^^^
Yes I agree with louped, Rolf, though these upsetting times it will give you warmth and reinsurance that loved ones are nearby.

Krunchy
11-16-2009, 09:15 AM
Hi Rolf, I am so sorry to hear of your loss, my sincere condolences to you and your family.
Our thoughts are with you.
Fred

Bob Womack
11-16-2009, 10:53 AM
I'm sorry for the loss of your closest one, Rolf.

jblnut
11-17-2009, 08:34 AM
I am very sorry to hear of your loss. Hopefully you will find some comfort in family, friends and music to sustain you through this dififcult time.

jblnut

JBLCanuck
11-17-2009, 03:50 PM
Hi Rolf,
Very sorry to hear of your loss
I can't imagine what your going through.
Hang in there...time heals everything eventually.

11-17-2009, 08:23 PM
My deepest condolences and sympathies. Family is your greatest asset right now. Hang close to them.

Rusnzha
11-18-2009, 05:46 PM
Rolf -- I am sorry for your loss. Stay close to your friends during this difficult time, I wish you the best.

boputnam
11-18-2009, 06:54 PM
Hi, Rolf...

Truly sad news. Like many, I wish I was closer to lend support and celebrate her life. Far too young.

Stay with us here, when you can.

:(

Rolf
11-20-2009, 08:12 AM
Hi friends.

Thanks for all sympaty, nice words, etc, both here and all the pm's I have got.

Yesterday we had the funural. It was hard, but it was a fine service.

This will be my last post in this thread.

I include a picture that is the way I will allways remember her.

If anyone still want to write something, you are welcome.

mikebake
11-20-2009, 08:48 AM
Sorry, Rolf. Such a loss.

Chas
11-20-2009, 09:43 AM
Rolf, what a dreadful shame. My sincere condolences. My thoughts are with you.
Charles.

JBL 4645
11-20-2009, 10:43 AM
Rolf

We are all sorry for the loss and she was far too young.:(

This is kinder like a family site in way and it reflects deeply on us all here.

vmax700
11-20-2009, 11:28 AM
Rolf my thoughts and prayers are with you. I am sorry for your loss. John

duaneage
11-21-2009, 07:45 AM
Reminds us all of who we truly care about, our family.

Regis
11-25-2009, 08:41 AM
Rolf, I just saw this post today and I would like to extend my condolences. I thought it was a wonderful for you to post pictures of your loved one. I have not lost anyone close to me yet, and I have not experienced the anguish and devastation that it would cause. You and your wife must have had many wonderful years together and I am saddened that she has passed away. I hope you find peace and solace in this very tough time.

Wardsweb
11-25-2009, 08:59 AM
I am so sorry. Words can not express the pain felt in one's heart and soul at such a loss. Realize it will pass. Not today, not tomorow but in the future. Remember the good times, the love and how she made you feel. No one can ever take that away.

timc
11-26-2009, 01:58 PM
I didn't see this until now.

You and your family have my condolences.


-Tim

RIGGED
11-26-2009, 04:18 PM
Hang in there dude.




RIGGED